Early morning MIL tells Ryan... the cake is not good. Tell your mom not to buy... ah gong bread is better... I almost laughed... because I think it is definitely better than her Maggi mee lor...

Then she add she prefers those with fresh cream... kao... I believe the cake is meant for the children & as long the children like & is healthy what is there to hiam lor...

Really bui tahan lor...

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While the government promote having children & giving some baby bonus to help with the cost,  the cost of milk powder has gone up by more than 25% over the last 2 years. 

I definitely do not see any way the government is helping as the baby bonus is long gone with the increasing cost of having a baby...

This is just so contradicting... only the rich can afford to have more kids I think... Where to find the money for milk powder pampers school fees.

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Again i had to niam the children to flush after use... my MIL save water (save money) till the extent tell the children not to flush... OMG!!!

Ever so often I'll see brown tea with wanton when I need to pee or poo... truly disgusting & definitely help me slim down (lost appetite)

Another thing i cant stand is the frequently choking bowl... obviously the result of not flushing...

Also... it is so unhygienic... i wonder if that's why the flu virus spread the whole house & refuse to leave...

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Whenever I think that my little gal will grow up to be close to normal I'm hit with worries...

she cant walk & if you don't let her use walker she can never walk... adela says... but had she help to do the exercise for her?  I seldom see... there's no webcam to check either...

The things we wanna do for the little one many a times got criticised... thinking of ways to make her move... many a headache...

I better set a time table of the things I want to do... energy energy where are you...

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I used to admire MIL for her good management of wealth but now I just see that she is super kiam (stingy) woman that's all...

I used to think my mom is drama queen with all her tears & complaints but I just found a bigger drama...

Just now MIL start showing powers by banging things to express her fury & then shouts "no air con" tonight... thinking people obeys her when she angry but frankly nobody gives a dam about it... so truly disgusted by her behaviour but have to bear with it so as not to make things difficult for alex...

As always,  money comes before family for her... and this money hole is so deep you can't see the bottom of this pit... even when alex had fits when he was a baby she did not come... I heard it well & know it well but when dealing emotionally with this money face is sure a tough job to remain calm nowadays...

Now I can only hope that my home will be completed soon... And preferably I like to habe some peaceful years without her in my home... I hope that mei's speculation is true...

I can only hope...

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I wanted to tell sil but afraid it may make matters worst... R was slap real hard because he ran across the road... I was stunned by what happened. .. my heart goes all out to the children...

My ils are out of patience & I'm afraid it is not good for all mentally...

Come to think of it... they never took care of their kids... it was the godmother who took care of Alex & grandparents who took care of Adrian...

I hope that sil will come back soon... asking if she can just come back Mar...

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Need to vent my frustration somewhere... These days MIL frequently chu power till cannot tahan already...

She think she rearing dogs??? Obey obey obey... As if dogs will obey someone who keeps losing her temper... I bet the dog will bite back hard!!!

Counting down to when my house will be ready... I need it badly now. ..

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Little yingying use to drink water from straw cup but now she refuses... she pushes the cup away till we resorted to milk bottle... she was ok awhile but then she refuses again... now, we use the spoon...

Little yingying will hold the milk bottle when she was learning how to but now that she knows how she threw the milk bottle away and scream for us to hold for her if she very hungry... my maid had to leave the milk bottle near her & run to hide some place... sometimes she cooperate when there's only me ard...

But I do not dare to try my luck when we are outside after the previous time she threw it onto the floor outside....

She's also quite fun & playful nowadays I'm so deplete of energy....

loving her as she is is probably a mother's instinct though at times I still feel depressed when I think about it but am much better already... I hope she'll have a good easy life...

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My friend sitting opposite me is having a bad cough. .. you can hear her coughing every few minutes. .. she didn't cover her mouth or wear s mask. ..

No offense really but by the end of the day I find that the air around smells bad..  not to mention the germs she spreading...

Ever since I have my girl I'm very particular about germs I guess.... how should I point out to her... sometimes she coughing into my face I really put off by it...

Of course I wish she'll get well soon.... dun really fancy any germs.... sigh sigh....

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